Guys are always there seeking for the girl they always have dreamt of. No matter how many times they fall for girls, every time they want to find the dream girl within each of those. But have you guys ever tried identifying what you want and what have you been going for? First try figuring out what do you want in a girl and try matching it then go for it, rather than just going for good looks and a nice behaviour.
1. Optimism in her
She is not a person with all the complaints and whatever; if she has a problem she always gets up, runs behind to sort it out, and finds the brighter side of any activity rather than holding on to the darker side. She should be good at handling from very small issues to the largest ones with her optimism.
2. The peace of yours
She can be an angel to whom whenever your eyes fall, you feel that happiness and peace. No matter you came back home from a hard day, having a bad mood, or even if you are already happy. She can be the person who brings a wider grin at your face.
3. Adaptable with you
She should be flexible with any situation, and comfortable with you. Complaining would be her least choice whenever she fails to achieve anything, rather she would be happy with whatever she has got, and being less whiny and demanding. She could be the guy friend with whom going anywhere doing anything would be just fine.
4. She knows where your position is
Yours thought, actions, worries are going to matter her as well, as she knows your position and values. She would never mind respecting your thought on anything, even if it’s different from hers, she would not mind. Advice which you will give her will be appreciated and valued. The same thing should go from your part as well. Even if there is something silly, she won’t be mocking you around rather she would join with you.
5. No secrets kept
She would not only be good as a life partner but also as a friend, so you can share anything you like, whether it makes sense or not, she is going to be the one who is going to be a listener, adviser, and a very good friend whom you can count on even when no one is there for you.
6. Can’t tolerate hearing bad about you
No matter how you are, even if you have some mistakes and flaws, she is never going to be talking ill about you to others, as she has owned you with all your goodness, she owns your flaws too. And someone telling bad about you would hurt her maybe more than it hurt you.
7. No matter what she is always in your mind
No one is going to stay beautiful and young forever, so no matter how bad she looks at times, gains or loses weight, or whatever situation she is in, or you are, these should never matter to you, because she is going to be in your head and you in hers anyway.
8. Friends and family
She must adore your family as much as she does it to her own. You both should have knowledge of all your friends, no matter how many she has got or you, both should have a mutual understanding with the friends and family of each other. Because you guys are going be together your families are going to be attached too.
9. Confident on her own skin
The girl you want to make yours should not be a person with fake character; she has to have confidence and comfort within her own skin. And the thing which both of you need along with love is, trust. If there is a good understanding with both of you, no matter how many female friends you have, or male friends she has, it’s always going to be you two.
10. Personal space
Make sure she is not that over-possessive type girl that stalks you the whole time on social media, and everywhere, wants your password to everything and doubts you for a silly matter. Not only from her part, it’s you as well who has to give her some personal space too. Keep yourself some time, it does not have to be her the whole time, you have a life.