Men like to complain that women aren’t straightforward enough and almost impossible to understand but it’s not like men are an open book themselves. If you’ve been with a guy a while and you’re wondering if he’s actually in love with you then here are 10 sure signs to help you figure it out.
1. HE SENDS MEANINGLESS MESSAGES
The more meaningless the message the more he loves you. If he’s talking to you about his dog or sending random pictures of what he’s looking at, or just texting you for the sake of texting you even though there’s nothing he has to say, he either has fallen in love with you or is well on his way to.
2. HE PUTS HIS PHONE AWAY
When he’s with you nothing can grab his attention; not even his phone. When what you’re talking about is more important to him than his games or mates you know that you’ve worked your way into his heart.
3. HE BUYS YOU PRESENTS
We mean that he buys you meaningful ones. He doesn’t just give you anything. He gives you a scented candle in your favourite scent, or gives you your favourite wine. He proves that he’s paid attention and picked up on what you like.
4. HE SHOWS YOU OFF
When a guy loves you he’s proud to have you on his arm and boast about how he has the best girlfriend in the world. He talks you up to his friends and takes you everywhere with him.
5. HE KEEPS TALKING ON THE PHONE
Men generally don’t like talking for a long period of time on the phone and often the only woman they’re willing to talk to for a long time is their mother. But when he carries on the conversation with you and you don’t know where the time has gone when you end the conversation, you know you’re in a great place.
6. HE’S PROTECTIVE
Some guys like showing off the saucy pictures they get from their girlfriends. Protective guys will take care of that as if you had just confessed to committing a murder. A guy who loves you will hold on to you as you go through bars and ensure you stay warm by giving you their top.
7. HE MAKES SACRIFICES
When a man is willing to skip the big game to spend time with you or your parents, or comes to you when you really need him most, it’s a sign he’s really in love. Guys in love make time for their girlfriends.
8. HIS FRIENDS LIKE YOU
When your boyfriend’s friends start taking you seriously, remember things about you, and are willing to get advice from you, it means that they know the guy is serious about you so they had better be serious too.
9. HE WANTS YOUR ADVICE ABOUT FASHION
Your opinion on his clothes and what he should be wearing mean a lot to the man who loves you. If he didn’t care about you he also wouldn’t care about looking nice for you. He wouldn’t even iron his shirt unless he cared.
10. HE GOES ALL OUT IN BED
If a man who loves you doesn’t automatically press all the right buttons for you in bed then he’ll keep pressing everything until he finds what work. It’s another way for him to take care of you, and if he loves you he’ll do it time and time again.